NOT KNOWN FACTS ABOUT WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN SAYS MY LOVE

I’ve never been married and don’t have kids. She does and it has four kids, she knows that I never wanted/want kids. As well as distance between us is 100km, 1 hour drive. However it didn’t keep me back to know her. Because whta is wrong with that?I don’t even understand my self. What am I to complete? She wants me and him. I’m trying to